Ugh, 4 year olds...

My youngest child's favorite words lately are "stupid head" and "I hate you". I don't get special treatment, he says this to everyone in the family. Why do they choose those words?? Why couldn't he choose maybe the simple, "NO" or maybe "I don't want to". Marcus and I had forgotten that all the kids went through this faze....and we must have had selective memories, to have 4 kids. :) He has his sweet moments. Out of the blue he will come up to me and give me a hug, a kiss, and say, "I wuv you mommy." That just makes my heart melt.